Kelli Frazer

Oakwood School Assistant Director of Development &
Oakwood Alumni Parent, Class of 2021

My journey with Oakwood began when we were looking for a middle school for my only child. Our goal was to find a school that would challenge my daughter academically and enhance her social skills. From the beautiful campus to the vibe of the staff and faculty, I immediately knew this was a special place. What I didn’t anticipate was just how involved with the community I would later become.

As a volunteer, I got a glimpse into the Oakwood community that was made up of exceptional leadership, caring teachers, and unique students. I say unique because each student is their own person. They are not just a number, they are not grouped into categories, but instead, they are each recognized as an individual and allowed to pave their way.


I started as a part-time employee allowed to focus on athletics, events, and community engagement—I loved it! Five years later, I am rewarded in ways that cannot be measured because it is a feeling I get from seeing the Oakwood students thrive in a multitude of different areas: academics, arts, and athletics, to name a few.  Each student can be a scientist, digital artist, athlete, actor, musician, engineer, writer, club leader, and the list goes on. I have watched students try on these different hats to find out what their true passion is and pursue it.

While I cannot know how my daughter would have fared at another school, I know that her participation in various activities has molded her into a well-rounded person. I owe that to Oakwood.

My daughter graduated in 2021 and people often wonder why I continue to work here. There is only one answer—the Oakwood community. The support, camaraderie, generosity, spirit, and connections that I have because of Oakwood are invaluable to me both personally and professionally.

The Bruce Family

P ’32
“Cameron continues to grow in confidence, and he accurately reflects the core personal values Oakwood School expects of their students.”

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The Saffarian Family

P ’30, ’33, ’35
“Respect, mindfulness, and kindness are embedded into the Oakwood culture, and those are a few of the most valuable aspects for our family.”

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